Who gives a damn what society says you should be. Gurl you can be as big as you want as long as you do you boo boo and you ain’t hurting anyone. It’s you life, live it the way you want. You don’t need a man, you don’t have to talk or act a certain way. Be you and don’t give a shit what anyone says. Do what makes you happy because life is too short. I don’t care what anyone says. Call me what you want and say what you want. I’m gonna do me and live my life. Its my life.